Yeah, so tonight I was stood up. Wasn't too happy about that, but then again, it's happened so many times now that I wasn't really suprised. Also, unlike last year, I follow warning signs now and I don't give girls like that a second chance, so it won't happen again. There's really no excuse for that. Cell phones are a wonderful invention that bring us closer together with just a few motions of a finger. She has one, I have one, no excuses. More than hurting me, it really just makes me mad. I just finished escaping the shadow of a girl who was the queen of "stand ups" and "not call you backs". I thought I had learned how to spot one a mile away, but no. They're good at lying because all they have to do is smile and you'll believe them. I was talking to a girl about it today and she said my problem is that I keep asking out "nice" girls. She said that the nice girls are the dangerous ones because they appear nice because they don't have the capacity to say "no". So in attempts to not hurt anyone but still maintain control over what they want to do, they do the most destruction by lying and sneaking around thinking that to be the better way because they don't see the destruction.
I don't entirely agree though. I think there's gotta be a nice girl out there somewhere who can be honest at the same time. That's the kind of girl I like. But right now... atleast for the past few years... I've had a knack for chasing girls who don't have time for me. All the while I've been building up patience based upon my "had it up to here" mentality. I've done it before and I can do it again. I think I just might call off dating in my life all together until the apocolypse or until a woman emmerges who wins ME over for once. I've done enough vain fighting.
Anyways, I've got stuff to do now and tomorrow is Friday. I will be happy tomorrow, but for now I'd like to punch a pile of bricks. Peace and love.
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The girl doesn't deserve you bud, plain and simple. I like the idea of waiting for a girl to win YOU over. It probably won't work, but I may try that myself.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry you got stood up lovely.<3
ReplyDeleteAs a girl who constantly seems to be put in the place of the unwilling pursuer I can relate. It's refreshing to hear that there are guys out there who actually go for what they want. Don't give up, Nathan. You'll find her.
ReplyDeleteMaybe if you hadn't called her so many times she wouldn't have gotten scared off. From what I know she was dealing with her brother and didn't have time to talk. Oh, you should also make it clear to your readers that you didn't even have definite plans. She planned to call you back but you called her so many times before she had a chance to get back to you that it freaked her out. Oh yeah, and it probably wasn't a good idea to give her number to your friend and have him call her the next day either. She wanted to make it up to you but dude, after getting a random call from guy she doesn't know, do you really expect her to not be just plain scared?
ReplyDeleteShe's a great girl, you blew it.